Have you thought about attending therapy, but were worried about being judged? Maybe you’re picturing a group setting with everyone taking turns, like you’ve seen in movies. It doesn’t have to be that way! Individual therapy allows people to explore emotions, behaviors, and thought patterns in private. Working one-on-one with a personal therapist creates opportunities for deep self-discovery and healing, and you’ll be able to target your specific concerns without worrying about taking too much time or boring an audience. 

The Therapeutic Relationship

The bond between client and therapist is often central to progress. Individual therapy provides a safe, confidential space to explore yourself without judgment. You can go at your own pace, exploring past traumas and/or current challenges one by one. Mental health professionals are bound by ethical and legal obligations to keep your information private, so you don’t have to worry about your therapist spilling your deepest secrets. 

What Individual Therapy Can Help With 

The beautiful thing about individual therapy is the flexibility. Because you’re the only focus of each session, you can address just about anything. People might come to therapy for: 

• Managing anxiety and depression 

• Working through grief and trauma 

• Developing coping strategies for stress 

• Building healthier self-esteem and confidence 

Whatever your reason, healing can only begin when you take the first step. Our therapists are ready to walk beside you on this journey to a happier, healthier version of yourself. Reach out today to schedule your first individual therapy session with a member of our team. We can’t wait to meet you! 

proach. They may be seeking strategies to tackle relationship issues or stress in the workplace. They may simply want a judgment-free space to safely process anger, vulnerability, or past trauma. Whether you’re facing a specific issue or simply feeling “off,” therapy with a men’s issues therapist can help you reconnect with your values, improve emotional regulation, and build healthier relationships. 

Take the First Step Toward Real Change 

There’s nothing unmanly about wanting to feel better, communicate more clearly, or live more fully. Contact us today to connect with a men’s issues therapist who will hear you out and help you walk a path that honors both your mental health and your masculinity. 

Therapy is a wonderful way to explore your inner world, process your feelings, and inspire transformation. But what my clients often tell me is that a day or so after our session, they begin to feel a little lost and anxious again.

It’s important to support the progress you’ve made with your therapist in between your sessions. Here is what I advise my own clients to do in between our sessions:

Keep Your A-ha Moments in Mind

Therapy is a space for profound A-ha moments. It’s important to hold onto those in the days after your session. Think more deeply about what was uncovered and see if any other pieces of information come to the surface. It’s a great idea to have a dedicated notebook to jot down anything that may come to you. Bring this with you to your next session so you can share your additional insights with your therapist.

Read

Ask your therapist to recommend some helpful books, blogs, or articles that may offer deeper insights into your issue. While reading about your issue will not resolve it on its own, it’s a great way to supplement your therapy sessions.

Journal

I have been an advocate for journaling for quite some time, so I was thrilled when research in the Journal of the American Medical Association stated that journaling has both mental and physical benefits. Journaling not only helps to manage stress and reduce anxiety, but it also can alleviate the symptoms of depression.

If you did just these three things, you would find your time in between sessions would be more enjoyable and help to facilitate further positive change.

SOURCES:

https://www.foundationscounselingllc.com/blog/what-to-do-between-therapy-sessions.php

https://themighty.com/topic/mental-health/mental-health-support-tools-to-use-between-therapy-sessions/

4 Things to Do Between Therapy Sessions

Finding a therapist that you feel totally safe and comfortable with is very important for your healing journey. Because of this, some people wonder whether it’s important for your therapist to be a certain gender.

Some have theorized over the years that the gender of a therapist should not matter. After all if they have both been trained and licensed and have a solid track record of helping clients, why should it matter?

While this attitude may make sense with other professionals, such as a dentist or veterinarian, gender can have a much more profound impact when it comes to seeking mental health counseling.

Beliefs and Comfort Levels Affect Treatment

Wishing your dentist was a woman instead of a man will not effective the outcome of your root canal. But feeling safer with a female therapist will affect your outcomes. Or believing that only another man can truly understand what you are going through will certainly impact the effectiveness of your treatment.

A woman who is dealing with the trauma of a rape may certainly not feel safe enough in the presence of a male therapist. Conversely, a woman who has been traumatized by a narcissistic mother may only feel safe with a male therapist.

Parents bringing their child in for therapy may specifically seek either a female or male therapist, depending on the specific scenario or issue. A young boy without any positive male role models may need the guidance provided by a male therapist. A female child who is scarred by an abusive alcoholic father may need the safety and comfort of a female therapist.

You Have Every Right

You should never be made to feel guilty because you have a preference for a therapist who is of a certain gender. Your comfort should be your number one priority.

If you would like to explore treatment options, and feel I may be a good fit for your needs, please reach out to me.

SOURCES:

https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/faq/does-sex-or-gender-of-therapist-matter

Does The Gender Of Your Therapist Matter?

Therapist Gender Does it Matter?